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Friday, November 19, 2010

Sexy vs. Scandalous

Let's get right to the nitty-gritty ladies... the line between looking fashionably sexy and looking fashionably slutty may blur a little in your wardrobe... sometimes it's accidental, other times it's purposeful... but to me UNDER-DRESSING, in any case, is a fashion don't (ever!). If you are a victim of this fashion crime, don't fret. It happens to the best of us and it's an easy fix! A common misconception is that being sexy requires skin, skin, and more skin.. however, having mystique and exuding class with a trend can get a man's attention just the same! Sure, you love your legs, your arms, your chest.. but flaunt in moderation! You don't want to be "the club girl" you want to be "the ONLY girl"! So, below are some examples of the problems and solutions that will turn you into a sexy AND sophisticated woman!


The Sequined Dress:

The Problem

Ok.. well, first off, if you ordered this Express dress online, and you are over the height of 5'7, it would end up being a tank top! The length is SOO inappropriate, and so inaccessible!! Loving to show your legs is one thing, loving to show your lady parts is another! A sequin dress is always a statement.. but this one is NOT making the right one!


The Fix



I found two great fixes for this look! First, with this Maggie London dress, all the issues are corrected! First off, the navy blue color (die!) will stand out on its own! The length is mid-thigh and it's appropriate for any age! Secondly, we have this mature Aidan Mattox short-sleeved dress! It's holiday-with-the-family perfection and the bow is adorable! Match both with a black pump and you have a sexy look that isn't over-the-top!



Edgy Lace Blouse:

The Problem

This shirt by Literature plays peek-a-boo.. and ends up a little frightening. TOOO much skin.. can you imagine someone with a full bust in this? Esh... Being bold is one thing, being bandaged is another!


The Fix

Be couture and cunning in this Robert Rodriguez ruffled blouse! Here is an example of sheer lace that doesn't emphasis your chest (although I would suggest an under-layer!)! It's got just the right amount of edge to make it look charming not cheap.



Trendy LBD:

The Problem


The LBD is known to be sexy, and cutouts are popular in Hollywood right now.. but this dress is not ok. Cut-outs, to me, are tacky. Are women really that desperate to show something?? I think it brings down the taste level of the dress.. along with the fact that the twins are protruding and your butt will hardly be covered. This dress says one thing.. can you take a guess what it is?


The Fix

Dark floral is hot hot HOT in this chilly season and this ABS dress is a perfect execution of the trend! It's flirty, fun, and sweet! This dress says sophistication!!



Winter Bottoms:

The Problem

Alice + Olivia Ruffled Skort..... need I say more.



The Fix

NOW, this Alice + Olivia high waisted skirt is whimsical and PRACTICAL! It's perfect for holiday shows and office parties, and it's still sexy and slimming!